Everyday Caregiving 💕

Where do I start? It’s hard to share a complex story about caregiving in a few paragraphs, but as I age myself, I think it’s important to share the reality, and experiences of caregivers, and those who need care.

My mom is 78 years old, she’s legally blind, she has severe scoliosis, back surgery, and more recently she had hip surgery after a fall. On top of other medical issues.

But do you know what’s really amazing about my mom?! Her attitude!!! Despite the MANY limited abilities, and physical limitations, she is extremely grateful about every single thing in her life.

She wakes up giving thanks for another day… literally. She blesses those she meets, her food, her environment, prays for those she loves, and anyone who needs her prayers. She is grateful beyond imagination, and when I’m having a bad day, her energy, and gratefulness refocuses my journey.

My mother can do very little for herself. She needs assistance with almost everything. From the moment she wakes up, until she lays her head to rest at the end of the day. She takes many pills a day, which she needs help managing as well.

Is it easy to be a caregiver? No, it’s not. Especially, when I myself have my own issues, work full time, and suffer from chronic illnesses.

Do I do it with love? ABSOLUTELY!

Is the extra effort to help my mom have a better life by managing her lifestyle worth it? YES!!!

My mom has been with us for almost one month, and for almost one month, it has been nonstop energy from dawn to dusk.

Tiresome? Yes. Sugarcoating hard life transitions is not fair to anyone.

I might be tired on a regular basis, but not every day is the same. Some days are harder for many reasons, and others feel like a breeze, well, easier. But everyday is so worth it because I can see my mom get stronger, healthier (in the ways that she can), and thriving when she meets new people, or meets with friends she’s made in the past.

She’s been sharing stories of her childhood, and younger years, memories and stories that are so valuable, and precious.

I asked my mom earlier today if she’d want to share some of her journey, our journey and she loved the idea. I don’t know where this will take us, but I know I’m not the only one caring for an aging parent, and she is not the only senior experiencing life challenges.

Aging with grace is so important, and caregivers play a huge, significant role in the aging process. Practicing self care is necessary, and the best form of love both ways. When we take care of our minds, and bodies, we can give more in return. 💕